The goal is never the end result

In the past 24 hours i have been all over the place mentally and emotionally and my ego or little voice in my head has been encouraging me give up on my mission and my vision because some things in my life simply aren't where i want them to be. I have had some seriously nasty inner conversations with myself and have had moments where i have bought into those thoughts and almost pulled the pin on everything i have been working so solidly on. Yes i have goals pending, i have things unachieved and my balance is out of whack. 
Its moments or times like these that i self-coach, i connect with my life coach, i call a friend, i read my purpose and my mission, i help someone/ give back to my community, i get to another event to network with like-minded people and i exercise my inner cheerleader like crazy. Having these tools around me to support me and keep me accountable and moving forward is absolute key and my lifesaver. 

Without a coach, without being able to recognise whats real as apposed to the made up stuff my ego is trying to sell me, without the consistent self-development i am committed to i have no idea how i would be able to make progress or keep pushing forward towards my goals. 

So even as i write this, i have things i need to get done, i have goals that are pending and unachieved and i have doubt about how i will achieve my dreams. I. AM. HUMAN. 

KEY: Goals are never the end result- its not all about the actual goal, its the journey that actually fulfils us and strengthens us and conditions us for success. This struggle i am passing through is a phase in my journey to achieving my goals, its not the end of my goals or the death of my dreams.
This struggle does not define me or my abilities as a coach or human. The character strengthening and growth i am getting from this struggle is the purpose and beauty of the challenge. 

So when your ego, or little voice is telling you you can't, your not worthy, your not good enough, you don't deserve your goal-- Give thanks, acknowledge your in a struggle moment and keep moving forward with your eyes and heart on your mission, the purpose and keep moving forward knowing your on your way, your on your journey. Get a coach, find some great audio CD's and begin living from your heart with passion and purpose. Love your life. 

Much love
Ellie xxx 
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